Thursday, November 16, 2006 @9:09 PM
fairy tales the korean way. receieved an email from my korean friend today. was an email that was really sweet, not just in the msg that she wrote to me, but sweet in the sense of the things that has happened for her.
in some way, perhaps then fairy tales do happen. i am really happy for her, to find the happiness she wanted. i can so imagine and picture her, smiling to herself as she wrote the email to me, language abilities aside, i am sure she is extremely happy and i could feel the bliss radiating from the words of the screen.
i guess it is always nice and sweet to be told that you are loved. to know that you are adored. to know that no matter what happens, how big the trouble, how heavy the pressure, how great the pain, there will always be someone whom you can run to for a hug, to tell you that everything will be alright and you will be fine. it is always nice to know that for all the things you are, you are appreciated.
i have always believed that the true test of a friendship, the true test of a relationship, lies not in the ability to share happy times together. of course it is extremely important to share happy times together. it is important that the person you are with, is the first person you want to tell all your forutnes and blessings to. that you want to share the happiness with. but the true measure of a friendship / relationship lies in the willingness of the other party to hang on to the friendship/relationship in troubled times. it is equally important that the person is able to stick through thin and thick, when you are down and unhappy. because happy people need perhaps less emotional and psychological support than unhappy people.
but yes, i am extremely glad for you my dear friend, that you found someone (13 years, it took 13 years for it to come true). stay happy. i wish i could fly there to see you. =)
JI HYUN: i dont know if you will get my email to you in time. but i just want to wish you all the best for your trip to the UK. dont worry too much my dear, i am sure you will fine over there. just remember, you can always call or email me if you feel lonely in the UK by yourself. but other do take great care of yourself there.
miche tells herself she should stop blogging, and write her essay instead. (shush you silly child).
